i had to to fire melody. she slowed down taking care of mom after mom came home from the hospital. i have been taking care of mom almost 100% my self for 4 weeks. found a good care home. hope to have her in this week. in need of much prayer.

 

Prayers sent....

 

Prayers Moe, been where you are, it can be a very difficult time

 

i got mom in the care home yesterday. went to visit today, and she is better. and my cusian Breanda came to see mom when i was there. and then came to the house and gave her some of moms things. one was the organ of moms. but mom is lonely like i am at the house. its hard to be alone at home when i have had someone here for so long. melody has been gone for 22 days. even though we was not getting along well i still miss her. i thought she was my best friend. but i see was just using me. i truly wish she could me my best friend, but she really was not my best friend, and i could not see it. the hurt from melody and my mom being in the care home is hard to take. i all ways knew melody could not be my girl friend and i was good with that. but we even talked about moving to a small house or apartment, and still being just best friends. my friends tell me i need a real girl friend. my friend Donna says i need to dress better to get a better girl friend. i have known Donna for 12 years, from electronics school. and she is the best to me. she helped me get mom in the care home. and is going to take me to get better clothes next week. i have this very big house with ton and tons of stuff. with Donna , and Brenda ill get throu this.

 

mom has been the new care home one week and 3 days. and she is getting great care. my friend Donna helped me some new clothes. now i dont look like a rag muffin. i told Donna she needs to get me a new girl friend. she told me that is MY job. soooooo what are the odds i can? i think some where between 0.0 TO 0.0. what think?

 

OK....Stop it......

Every Morning you get your azz out of bed... Look in the Mirror.... And say...

"I will have this complete day and work it with complete confidence"

And when you go to bed.... Plan out what you are going to accomplish tomorrow..

Oh... And Stop acting like a tramp.. Head to the local coffee hole for some chatting for only 2 hours a day....

Get over to the race track on the weekends or on grudge night over in Wichita KS... Watch that bad Azz Shawn Jennings Mopar Fly..... Cheer him on.. Put that Dakota in the Summit Class and go win a few rounds....
You are lucky my ugly stick wont reach that far....

 

It's time to get back to the other thing's in life that define you. Hobbies, friends, religion etc. even work can help get you back to yourself. Care taking of a relative can be rough emotionally, so it's time to take care of yourself.

Good luck,

 

Man o Man.. you cats sound like my friend Donna. and you all are VERY right. i need to get back to what I want to do. iam just so used to some one being at home all the time. making what has to get done important. and now i can do ANY thing i want. hard to get used to this being the ONLY person in the house. so tomorrow ill go to the MOPAR club meeting. and stay out as late as i want. did not go to the motor cycle drags last weekend cause my legs give out to soon. and may be i DONT want a girl friend.

 

Shawn Has one bad *** 64.....

 

i went with my friend Jim to fri nite car get together at west and centeral. course we had to eat at Applebees, and see my bar tender lady friend Loren. her long island ice teas are to die for. one cat has a bad *** slant 6 street rod. with a custom chrome Valiant name plate on the radiator. duel pipes, and a 1934 dodge, 2 door sedan street rod, suadaside doors, in white, with a RB , with 4, 59 cady tail lights. and some great pin strips. went to see mom today. she is doing ok. but has some aches and pains. starting to do work on the house to move my bed room to the other end of the house.

 

That's what I'm talking about!
Have you got a project of your own?

 

Hey Moe, reread all your posts in this thread and see if you can tell the difference like I can after one car show.

You just describe those cars to a tee like I can see them, There's your answer.

Moe, your a car guy, BE ONE, the women will come along eventually if it's meant to be.

Share your car knowledge with people and have fun.

 

you cats are the best. you cats stay with me like car guys do. i dont care if i get a girl friend. my long time friend Donna is the best, and my friend jim is good to me also. i was at the first time they started the mopar club here in Wichita KS. 1985. AND i was at the FIRST, NHRA nationals in Greatbend KS, 1955. my big project now is to get rid of this house, ( its my moms not mine ) sell it and put the money in bank to support my mom. the second project is my radio control cars. i was mixing my own nitro from scratch, last year. we found out that more nitro will not give more top speed. but will cause the R.C. car to do a wheely at 50 MPH. nuf said?